Comments on: Deriving the Rule of Happiness (IQ Not Required)

By: Wai Wai

Wai Wai — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 08:08:44 +0000

I like to go for happy hour after work (drinking in the pub) almost everyday. Been drinking for many years (bad habit). Spend half of my earnings to this bad habit. I have tried to quit but the local pub I hang out drinking is just 5 minutes drive from my house and I have to pass by that pub everyday after work. Every time I told myself to go home after work but always ended up turning my car into the car park to the pub. Every time I limit myself for only 2 beers then go home but ended up with 6-8 beers. Pocket burn!
One day I did a little mind trick to myself, as usual after work I’ll drive home, but this time 20m before I pass by that pub I’ll tell myself.. I’ll go for a couple of drink! Let’s go home to have a shower first, perhaps a hydrating facial mask and a new make-up…
guess what happen? I always ended up sleeping or watching DVD at home. I know myself very well, once I reach home and had shower, I’ll never want to go out! So a little mind trick works! Now I have stop drinking for 3 months. I learn to do this before I read your blog..

By: mat

mat — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 06:57:29 +0000

I think the crux of the matter to know what one really wants and what is important. if going after what we want is jeopardising our priorities; that it is no longer a viable pursuit. Nonetheless, i enjoy reading your post. Thanks for sharing.

By: kyle911

kyle911 — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 18:22:30 +0000

y eat strawberry ? LMAO

By: Jek

Jek — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 16:23:20 +0000

Well, i not yet buy it as it is around rm70 @@ . Seen that you read a lot of book , i though you might have read this as well and can give some opinion =) . It is recommend as a good book in some forum , they mention that after reading this book , it will save you from spending too much time/$$ on other ‘motivational’ books.

By: AhYap

AhYap — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 11:40:48 +0000

> Do you read 59 seconds think a little change a lot ?

Nope. Good book?

By: Jek

Jek — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 12:41:54 +0000

Do you read 59 seconds think a little change a lot ?

By: TAJUL ARIFFIN

TAJUL ARIFFIN — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 01:01:28 +0000

Mr. Yap..you are so genius..i’ll start changing my way of thinking.TQ sir.

By: AhYap

AhYap — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 14:09:13 +0000

I think “instant awakening” is like “tipping point”, you practice practice practice practice, and then BOOOMMM, one day, you “instantly” awaken.

Honestly to unfuck our brain, we also need to practice practice practice and practice until BOOMMMM, one day, our brain is unfucked (become virgin again) our original state.

By: Hugo Lim

Hugo Lim — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 07:25:20 +0000

am always fun reading your writing! hahah! keep it going~

By: Sourpuss

Sourpuss — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 07:06:38 +0000

I think, rules are the main problem we have. As if we do not have enough of them already (crappy shit like speed limit), Now we are embedding them into our lives? Rules are good if it helps. To many rules will leads to rigid humans (everything is regulated ie everyone wants to be rich and powerful ). Sooner or later we will only have 1 goal and the earth become stereotype. seems impossible think again
1. Male will only have 1 goal : COD as much until he dies, and fuck loads of women especially lin zhi ling b4 they die, then lin zhi ling will be so doom.
2. Female will only wish menstruation never exist.

The more people wants to be in control and be extremely powerful. The nearer we move towards cloning (end of world to me). you like that idea now? u want what u want and wish people to eat your shits? then in the future only your face is surviving in the surface of earth. nothing else.

there are no recipe to happiness. It is all about perspective and perception. The day you know whether or not you are truly happy is the day you die.